How I Stay Motivated: Career and School

As I'm finishing up my last semester of college, to say that I'm eager and ecstatic is an understatement. This has been a very long journey. I was initially supposed to graduate from one school over the course of 4 years. Instead, life had a different plan for me. Five years, four different schools, and … Continue reading How I Stay Motivated: Career and School

Emotional Masturbation

I'm sure you all know what masturbating is in the physical sense, and good for you if you do it. What we all tend to do, male and female, is emotionally masturbate. Let me explain  what that is, and why you need to stop immediately... Men, are likely to do this very early on while … Continue reading Emotional Masturbation

From “Fat Girl” to F*ck You

Do you remember the opening scene of The Devil Wears Prada, where all the working girls in NYC look amazing while getting ready for work? How confident and sexy they felt, and they weren’t even fully put together. That’s how I choose to feel on a daily basis. I remember when I was 30 lbs heavier … Continue reading From “Fat Girl” to F*ck You

I Want You to Learn About Me First

I went on a second date with somebody a couple weeks ago. He took me to a very fancy restaurant in attempt to top our first date. Our very first date started off at a rooftop bar and the date lasted almost 5 hours because we connected so well. I thought it was actually kind of … Continue reading I Want You to Learn About Me First

The Law of Attraction 

I am a firm believer that what you put out into the universe, is what you'll receive back. Believe it, speak it to existence, and act on it. Ever notice when you replay a bad situation in your head that it never gets better, it simply just eats you up inside? That's because when you … Continue reading The Law of Attraction 

Love and Sex… Don’t Confuse the Two.

Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is a form of communication, and we humans have a tendency to struggle with differentiating the values between sex and love. When it comes to love... we seek exclusivity and commitment. Whereas for sex, we seek variety and novelty. Too often do I hear stories about … Continue reading Love and Sex… Don’t Confuse the Two.

Love Yourself

The most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself. At the end of the day, your opinion and value of yourself is what matters most. People can sense your level of confidence, and those who have ill intentions can smell your weaknesses and insecurities from miles away. THOSE people are the … Continue reading Love Yourself